"We're Not The One" Series Coming Soon!

In order to be good Alpha males and Omega males, we must hold ourselves accountable first.

I just did a 7-part blog series on how to tell if a woman is the "one."  Now it's our turn.  As men, we are the LEADERS of the family and the church.  That is not misogyny or sexism.  It is godly leadership based on love and truth.  For this reason, we must be extra accountable so ensure that we are not hypocritical in our leadership.  For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.**

***Romans 6:23 (ESV)

Happy Father's Day! What Your Most Important Job Is As The Head Of Household

Being a good father is a blessing and a MASSIVE responsibility.  You are the leader of your household and your word is law, as long as you don't contradict Jesus Christ.  However, the safety of everyone who lives in your household is ON YOU!  That means you are the one who has to protect your family from:

-Thieves

-Rapists

-Murderers

-Terrorists

-Wild Animals

-Natural Disasters

-Disease Epidemics

-Everything other horrible thing that can possibly happen

So being a leader doesn't look like so much fun now, does it?  

If so, TOUGH ROCKS, PAL!

When you get married and have kids, you have no choice be to lead.  If you are the man in the complementary-gender union (an actual, genetic male), then you are the leader.  Period.  No ifs, ands, or buts.  That means you must do everything in your power to LEAD YOUR FAMILY TO CHRIST.

This includes, but is not limited to:

-Marrying a godly woman (an actual, genetic female of legal age)

-Choosing a Christ-centered church

-Dragging said family to a Christ-centered church, kicking and screaming (if they don't like it, they can MOVE!)

-Protecting your family from all threats.  Yes, that's right.  YOU MUST DIE FOR THEM IF NECESSARY!

-Providing food, shelter, clothing, education, and medical care (even if it means working five jobs)

-Staying sexually pure (No porn, no monkey-spanking, no mistresses, no brothels and no orgies)

-Casting out family members who are abusive or addicts.  If they abuse their relatives or do drugs or break the law, THROW THEM OUT!

And that's the real reason why you have veto power on family decisions, get sweet love from your wife three times a week (sodomy excluded), and can sit on the sofa while your kids mow the lawn and do the dishes.  Because you are the protector.  The provider.  The leader* who will show them Jesus Christ with your life.  For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.**

*Women are allowed to lead in public office, scientific research, business, academia and all other areas outside of the church and the family.  Leadership in the family and church must be male-only, though.   

**Romans 6:23 (ESV)

She's Not The One Post #7: Colonel Sanders Is Her Personal Trainer

IT'S NOT A SIN TO BE FAT!

That being said, we are called to take proper care of our bodies. Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. So glorify God in your body.*

One way of doing this is to have a healthy diet and to exercise properly.  It's not about being dead sexy: it's about living long so that you can tell as many people about Christ as possible.  People who diet and exercise live much longer, healthier lives than people who...don't.  So if your future wife thinks the major food groups are deep-fried, chocolate-covered, cream-filled, extra cheese, and double scoop, then friendzone her!  She can't be your help meet if she is constantly in the hospital having self-inflicted quadruple bypass surgeries.  Also, don't be a hypocrite: make sure that you are laying off the sweet stuff, too!  For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord!**



*1 Corinthians 6:19-20 (ESV)
**Romans 6:23 (ESV)